Bringing Toys Into the Bedroom

Bringing Toys into

the Bedroom

If you’ve ever painted your nails, highlighted your hair, or put a dab of makeup on your face, you know how much fun it can be to add a little something extra. And if you’ve ever pushed a button on an elevator rather than trudging up the stairs, or used a shopping cart to carry your purchases rather than staggering through the store with your arms full, you know there’s no harm in using some equipment to make certain activities a little easier.

Passion Parties understands that toys are a positive, playful way of spicing up your sex life and making things more satisfying for both of you. Toys aren’t a negative commentary on anybody, or on anybody’s abilities in
the bedroom. However, if you want to introduce toys into your bedroom repertoire, communication and sensitivity are extremely important. Here are some suggestions:

Be Tactful.

If your partner is excited about trying out a few toys, it’s all systems go! But if the two of you have never used toys before, consider one of the following approaches — either just before the sexual part of the evening or at a completely neutral time, so it doesn’t seem like a backhanded criticism of your sex life:

“Honey, I read about something recently, and I thought maybe it might be fun — are you willing to give it a try?”

“I went to this party and ended up buying this product . . . what do you think?”

“My girlfriend bought this and gave it to me — should we try it out?”

(That way, he doesn’t have to wonder if some lack in your sex life has sent you out shopping.)

Be Positive.

Some partners love the idea of toys, but they’ll never make the suggestion, either because they think you’ll be offended or because it simply never oc- curred to them. Once you open that door, though, they may have all sorts of ideas you haven’t considered. Consider moving out of your comfort zone, just for one night. Who knows – you may decide it’s a night you want to repeat.

Be Patient.

Try taking it one step at a time, starting with the toy or product your lover will feel most comfortable with and building from there. You could say, “I was thinking it might be fun to buy ourselves some ‘presents.’ Here’s one for you…I’ll show you the one I got for me later on…!”

Be Playful.

Vibrators, edibles, and other sexual products are adult toys. That is, fun things you can share with your favorite playmate. And when you look at them as toys, you and your partner will feel more at ease and may come to enjoy incorporating them into your sex life.page1image31008

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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