Massage for Intimacy

Massage for Intimacy

You don’t have to be a Licensed Massage Therapist to increase the intimacy between you and your partner with a massage.  You may not be able to provide all of the therapeutic benefits that a professional can, but you can certainly send your partner into a relaxed state of tranquility and splendor, and increase the physical connection between the two of you with long, soothing strokes.  Here are a few tips to help you ease your partner’s tension.

  1. Set the mood of the room with some soft lighting and relaxing music.  Make sure the area is clutter-free.  Tranquility is far easier achieved in a tidy environment than one with a pile of laundry in the corner!
  2. Choose a massage oil or lotion that will glide on the skin smoothly, without clumping up or going dry after two seconds, but one that also won’t leave you or your partner feeling greasy.  Good options: RomantaTherapy Creamy Massage Oil, and RomantaTherapy Seduction Soy Massage Candle.  These products both contain pheromone enhancing elements to help get you both in the mood for love!  If you think the rubby-rubby may lead to a little licky-licky, try Tasty Temptation Massage Candle.  Like the RT candle, this one melts into a luxuriously warm massage oil, but this one’s flavored!  You can choose Strawberry, Cherry, or Vanilla for your delicious massage experience.
  3. As mentioned above, long strokes will create a much more soothing massage than will short, choppy strokes.  Start at one end of a body part and work slowly (s l o w l y… s  l  o  w  l  y…  s     l     o     w     l     y…) to the other end.  Due to the way blood flows through your body, it’s always a good idea to use lighter pressure when moving away from the heart, and more firm pressure when moving toward the heart.
  4. Speaking of pressure, unless you know what you’re doing or your partner specifically requests it, don’t try to work out any knots.  Save that job for the professionals.  A sensual massage can turn into a defensive argument pretty quickly if bruises form!  Plus, unless you’re trained on how to get rid of muscular knots, your hands will probably cramp up pretty quickly, and that won’t be fun for either of you.
  5. To help ease those knots, use a bit of heat from an Amazing Hot Heart Massager or Hugs & Kisses.  These reusable warming massage packs heat up to 129°F/56°C and stay hot for up to 45 minutes!  I’ve actually started using these in place of hot stones for my own massage clients, and they work really well!  (Yes, I am a professional.)
  6. Extra massage tools can be good, but be careful with them, again, unless you have proper training.  You can actually do more harm than good if they’re used improperly.  An excellent idea for a lovely added sensation is a massage mit!  Made of rubber, these cover your hands and essentially do the work for you.  They look a little funny, but they feel fantastic!  Try a Love Smitten, or for some ultra-fabulous dual-action , go with the Super Deluxe Smitten to give you some tactile sensory options!
  7. Stay away from the spine!  It doesn’t feel good to have someone rubbing your bones, and spinal injuries are pretty serious.  If your partner is out of alignment, call a chiropractor!

Hopefully these tips will help you provide your partner with a lovely, relaxing massage.  Maybe you can share this info and reap the benefits of having the tips applied to you, as well!  And, if you need a professional, I’m happy to help you find a good one in your area.

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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