You’re the only one who can take control of your life and make it what you want it to be. You’re the only one who can take control of yourself and make you what you want to be. Giving up that control and allowing someone or something else to create your life and create you will only lead to unhappiness for you and those around you. Stopping this list of 30 self-defeating habits may not be super easy, but will be well worth the effort. I’m on board! Are you?