Monthly Archives: January 2012

The Sensuality of Mutual Grooming

From bonding to hygiene to boredom to relieving stress, there are many reasons why animals groom one another, and humans do it, too, although our reasons normally stem from affection.  Couples in love can find ways to sensually express themselves through mutual grooming, such as trading massages, bathing together, and even shaving one another.  In this multi-tasking society, mutual grooming can be a fun way to not only spend time together, but to also accomplish a personal task at the same time.  Here are a few ideas for you and your partner to make mutual grooming sensual and pleasurable.

MASSAGE – Sensually massaging one another is a very common go-to foreplay event for a lot of couples.  Soothing aching muscles is always a welcomed experience, but having your partner’s hands explore every crevice of your body is an added bonus.  Regular massaging tones and firms the skin by stimulating capillaries and glands, especially when using a textured massage tool that energizes the skin, like our Super Deluxe Massage Smitten.  This helps to reveal an overall radiant glow.  Also, the skin contains nerve centers that connect with the brain’s pleasure center, so regular massaging contributes to an overall feeling of well-being.  Using oils and lotions as part of a regular massage routine helps to hydrate and nourish the skin.  Watch our Erotic Massage DVD to learn tips and techniques, and prepare for a powerful evening of love and touch!  (***For injuries and knotted up muscles, please see a professional Massage Therapist.  I’m happy to help you find a good one, if you don’t already have one.)

MUTUAL SHAVING – According to, mutual shaving is one of the most popularly recommended activities for couples who need to reignite a spark in their relationship.  Simply put: many men have a fascination with a cleanly shaven genital area.  On the other hand, many women find they are more willing to perform oral sex if their partner is free from hair.  So, not only does mutual shaving provide an avenue for couples to learn to trust one another, it also makes for a smoother sensation for oral play.  Check out Fragrance Free RomantaTherapy Soft & Silky Shaving Creme and After Shave Protection Mist to ensure the cleanest and closest shave possible!  Aloe and jojoba soften the hair, making it easier to shave, and moisturize the skin.  A spritz of the mist afterward immediately closes the hair follicle, so ingrown hairs don’t occur.  These two products combined help to eliminate and prevent the red, itchy, burning bumps that can often occur with shaving, and help to make it so you have to shave less frequently.  Soft & Silky comes in our three RomantaTherapy scents: Plumeria, Pomegranate Ginger, and Coconut Lemongrass, but I always recommend Fragrance Free for those with sensitive skin, and it’s what I personally use.

BATH FOR TWO – Conserve water and bathe with your lover!  Research from the Rheingold Institute in Germany proves that couples who bathe together from time to time have a deeper connection with their partners than those who only bathe solo.  Add to the mix nude bodies and soapy bubbles, and you can give the phrase, “I’ll wash your back, if you wash mine,” a super sexy meaning.  Soak, relax, and enjoy Plumeria RomantaTherapy Sensuous Bath Salts with your partner to infuse the bath and the room with the calming, soothing, sensual scent of Plumeria, known the world over as “the flower of love” for its aphrodisiac qualities.


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Boost Your Self-Esteem!

With everything going on at the beginning of a new year, it’s easy to forget to take some time for your inner Passion Diva.  Today, I’m going to give you ten tools (gifts, really) to help boost your self esteem.  These exercises are designed to aid you in reclaiming your confidence and sensual prowess, and reawakening your Passion Diva.  Go get her!

  1. RECONNECT – Spend an hour or so journaling.  Write about your wants, passions, and dreams.  Be as detailed as possible.  Don’t just focus on material desires, but the emotions you’d like to fee.
  2. DREAM – Grab a few magazines and cut out images associated with the things you want (based on your journaling.)  Glue the clippings to a large poster board, pin them to a cork board, or arrange them all in your favorite frame.  Cover the entire surface, collage-style.  Once complete, hang your new dream board up in a visible place within your home.
  3. BE FEARLESS – Do something that is a little intimidating to you, while wearing Pure Instinct, our pheromone-enhancing cologne (adding to your natural attraction and acting as a natural mood elevator for you and everyone around you!)  Maybe it’s dining alone, starting a conversation with a stranger, making amends with an old friend, scheduling that long-put-off appointment, or taking the first step toward realizing your dreams – pick YOUR power.  You can even dedicate an entire day to doing what scares you.  “No way,” you say?  YES way!  DO IT!
  4. LIVE IN THE MOMENT – Be in the “here and now” for one entire hour. Turn on some soft music, and focus on now and nothing else.  You can prepare your mind for “moment time” through meditation or even some simple breathing exercises.  (There are tons of them on Google, and even free apps you can download to help you with this!)  Once you’re mentally prepared, soak in a tub filled with warm water and Plumeria RomantaTherapy Sensuous Bath Salts, and spritz your towels with Plumeria RomantaTherapy Pillow Mist.  Inhale…  Exhale…  Breathe in…  Breathe out…  Don’t think.  Just experience.  Ommmmmm…
  5. INDULGE – Enjoy an evening of pure pleasure!  Have a marathon session of your favorite movies, while snacking on your favorite treats.  Try one of the decadent deserts in the “Guilty Pleasures” section of Love on the Menu.
  6. BOND – Make like Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte of “Sex and the City” with a female bonding session.  Grab some cocktails and dish about, well, everything!  (Toxic friends need not apply.)  Talking to the people who really matter in life is a very therapeutic activity.  For a really effective experience, turn it into a slumber party with popcorn, a round of Truth or Dare, and girly rituals like an Avocado and Cucumber mask – a fun, homemade beauty recipe from Love on the Menu.
  7. PREEN – Want an instant confidence boost?  Get primed and pampered.  Choose your favorite RomantaTherapy scent (Plumeria, Pomegranate Ginger, or Coconut Lemongrass), and exfoliate with Smoothing Sugar Scrub.  Then, follow up with Toning Body Butter.  The two products work together to do exactly what their names imply: smooth and tone  Smooth sexy skin is always in!
  8. HEIGHTEN SEXUAL AWARENESS – Live sensually for a day.  Wear lingerie underneath your work attire, or wear the Wave Pattern Body Stocking in place of tights with a cute skirt and boots, and dab on some Pure Satisfaction.  (For more information on Pure Satisfaction, watch my YouTube video here.)
  9. BE A PRINCESS – Who doesn’t love sparkly, shimmery, glittery things?  Put on your sexiest goddess dress (or those magic jeans that hug your curves in just the right way,) a tiara, and Glitter Body Gel.  Diva it out by cranking up the stereo and singing your favorite, confidence-boosting, “I ROCK” songs.
  10. FEED YOUR BRAIN – Learning can boost confidence by making you feel more competent in what you know.  Expand your sexual knowledge with a good book from the Passion Library, like The Passion Parties’ Guide to Great Sex.

Gifts that keep on giving…

Try these tips:

  • Look at your dream board at least twice a day – when you wake up in the morning, and after you get home from work.
  • Try any of the ten “gifts” whenever you’re not feeling your best.
  • For a more effective experience, “open” the gifts when they can be done consecutively, and you can really focus and commit to them 100%.  The beginning of the year is the best time to do it!
  • Take these “gifts” even further by making them a regular part of your life!

I would LOVE to hear about all of your success with these on my GrownUpSexEd Facebook page!

Did you know that self-esteem can have a direct effect on sex drive and desire?

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Hop To It! – Why Rabbit Vibrators are Wildly Popular!


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Why Rabbit Vibrators are Wildly Popular 


Most everyone credits the television series “Sex and the City” for making the rabbit vibrator a humorous part of our mainstream culture, however, the toy had already become a favorite among the masses of sexually empowered women using it, thus inspiring its appearance on the TV show.

Ever since the rabbit vibrator emerged from Japan, where it is illegal to produce sex toys that resemble male genitalia, this funny bunny adult toy has claimed its fame as the ‘it’ toy among the thousands that exist today, which leads us to this curious question: why is the rabbit vibrator so popular?

Well first of all, it’s cute. A woman who has never masturbated with a vibrating sensual toy will more than likely not be intimidated by one shaped like a rabbit. Studies show that 15%-20% of women have never experienced an orgasm. So for the first-time adult toy user, a rabbit vibrator is a great place to start.

Second, rabbit vibrators are dual purpose. That is, they offer internal and external stimulation at the same time. The shaft of the vibrator is inserted into the vagina while the bunny shaped tickler titillates the clitoris and labia. Approximately 70% of women do not orgasm with penetration alone, so a vibrator with rabbit ears to stimulate the outer area of the vagina removes any existing guesswork from sexual exploration.

Rabbit vibrators come in all sizes and colors. Some even feature impressive bells and whistles, such as multiple speeds and swirling motions. With so many options available, there is most definitely a rabbit vibrator for you. But how do you select the right one? A knowledgeable Consultant who understands rabbit vibrators and their offered features can help you choose the perfect rabbit vibrator, using guidance and confidentiality. Now that we’ve got you excited to try a rabbit vibrator, hop to it! Select a Passion Parties rabbit vibrator today.  


Passion Parties Rabbit Vibrators 

Currently, Passion Parties sells seven indulgent rabbit vibrators and two enjoyable bunny bullets.

~ Li’l Thumper, Aqua Bunny, Bunny Bliss, and the Pleasure Wave are all water resistant vibrators featuring multiple speeds and functions in a budget friendly price range.

~ Jack Frost is a dual purpose, water resistant vibrator with a rotating shaft, internal G-Spot bullet, and three clitoral stimulators.

~ Our high-end rabbit vibrators are Rippling Rabbit and Cosmo Bunny, both of which showcase inner pleasure beads and a multitude of functions, making customization of self pleasure easy.

~ Rockin’ Rabbit and Bunny Bullet offer clitoral pleasure in a compact shape.


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Sensual Zodiac: Aquarius



Sensual Zodiac    

Zodiac Secrets of the Sensual Aquarius Woman


January 20-February 19

You are among the people most likely to be seen on a nude beach.

Sensual Aquarians like to be au natural.


What makes you such a sensational treat?

It is because your feelings run so deep. The truth is, we know by now, to expect anything from you. Yet you continue to surprise and fascinate us. You are a living example of female power, laced with undeniable grace. You glide through life as if you are floating on

a cloud of cotton candy. Like a sunflower, your smile lights up the natural beauty of your face. You were born to give love, which means you will always be loved.


Kind, Intuitive and a Free Spirit

Quietly you rebel against mediocrity. You have a knack for seeing
things as they really are. Opposing forces have no power over you. You have the true riches of life. You understand the importance of taking time to explore and stay connected with your loved ones.


Here is another little secret about you:

You have had many high moments of spontaneous joy and wonder. In fact, your open nature gives you the ability to laugh during orgasm or cry during a sunset.


The biggest secret of your sex appeal?

Pure sensual energy shimmers around you like fairy dust. If they named a perfume after you, they could call it “Innocence.” Why? Because you exude the purest essence of compelling innocence and sensuality of all the Sensual Zodiacs. Subtle, yet powerful, you do not have to act out in order to stand out.


How to seduce you?

Patience is the password. Genuine friendship is the key that unlocks your door. With you, true love is when two friends fall in love. You like the idea of interest before intimacy. For you, sex is a very private matter and friendship is similar to foreplay. Love making is a union of body, thoughts and feelings. You need the space to create, the freedom to feel, and the permission to let your feelings flow like liquid.


What else has the power to enchant you?

You enjoy romantic rituals that are based on mutual interest – things like cooking a gourmet meal, spending time in the Rockies, flying kites in Central Park or swimming with the dolphins. Whatever you do, you prefer to enjoy the feeling of connection before feeling comfortable enough to totally open up. 


Best Passion Product for you:
“The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex”

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Why? Because you are one of life’s great romantics and you like to learn new things. This book helps guide you and your partner to new and exciting experiences. It is perfect for you.




(excerpted from “Your Sensual Zodiac” by Suzie Johnson)

6 Things a Marriage Counselor Would Tell You

6 Things a Marriage Counselor Would Tell You – Emotional Health Center – Everyday Health.


Whether you’re in a new, blossoming relationship, or you’ve been married for over half of your life, this article will give you tips and reminders to keep your relationship going strong!

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