1. Use a toy. Most women find it easier and quicker to reach an orgasm when a vitiator or dildo is involved. And if you enjoy masturbating in the shower or while soaking in the tub, remember that there are a multitude of water resistant toys at www.GrownUpSexEd.com.
2. Use lube. A lubricant is especially important if you’re tired or have had a stressful day. Fatigue, age, stress, and your menstrual cycle are all factors that can have an adverse effect on natural lubrication. So take it easy on yourself and use a lubricant such as Silicone Lubricant or Revelation from our RomantaTherapy line.
3. Use your imagination. Masturbation is your “me time.” Allow your mind (and body) to be swept away by a tale of romance and passion. Whether fantasizing about your favorite celebrity or the sexy neighbor down the street, go ahead and let your imagination run wild. Even if you’re in a committed relationship, it’s okay to think about someone else when masturbating. Dr. Joyce Brothers agrees, telling the online daily news website SeattlePI.com, “It might relieve some of your guilt to know that many happily married individuals who have no thought or intention of ever betraying their spouse have sexual fantasies about someone other than their spouse.”
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