Share the Pleasure: Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation is not an experience limited to solo play only.  Once you and your partner have mastered the art of self-pleasure, why not show your talents off…to each other?!  Mutual masturbation is an act of love, trust, communication and pleasure that can enhance the sexual repertoire of any couple.  Curious?  Here are some tips for incorporating mutual masturbation into your lovemaking.

1.  Talk about it before you do it.  If you and your lover have never participated in the act of mutual masturbation, and during foreplay you suddenly start pleasuring yourself, your partner may be thrown off.  Don’t surprise your mate with your desire to mutually masturbate.  Communicate your interest beforehand.

2.  Let down your guard.  Let’s be honest here:  people normally play with themselves in private.  We usually don’t want others to know what we’re doing.  You may feel a bit nervous about touching yourself in front of your partner; so take a deep breath, exhale, and just do it.

3.  Incorporate a toy or two.  No matter your gender, we have toys for you!  While the ladies are using the Lelo Soraya, Jack Frost, or OMG, the guys can Mimi or Jet Black, and you can enjoy watching each other.  (Remember to always use toy cleaner before AND after use.)

4.  Really share the experience.  As you masturbate, chime in a few words as to why you are using the particular toy you enjoy using.  Describe any sensations that your partner may find arousing.  And allow your playmate to do the same.  Ask your partner what type of touch turns him/her on and what sort of thoughts run through his/her mind during self-pleasuring.

5.  Consider role playing.  If you’re finding it challenging to not be shy, consider pretending that you two are different people.  Role play that you are an adult film actress and your lover is the director filming you (while also masturbating) as you touch yourself. Or, pretend you are a voyeur who enjoys peeping and your partner is an exhibitionist who enjoys being watched.  Find a scenario that works for you both and just have fun with it.

 

 

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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