Anal Adventures

Does the thought of anal play make you blush?  You could be missing out.  More and more women (and men) are finding that booty action can be bliss…bliss…BLISS!  Discover the secret behind this sexual craze, and tips for your own backdoor adventure.

The “What”

Anal play offers couples an alternative avenue for sexual exploration; and may involve anything from rimming (whereby the outer edges of the anal opening are stimulated), to anal penetration by a finger, toy, or penis.  The primary focus of this post is on anal penetration.

The “Why”

It is well known that men enjoy anal penetration due to their version of the G-spot – the prostate gland.  But what’s in it for women?  The answers lay within…

The anus is interconnected with the pelvic muscles and holds a large concentration of nerve endings.  This makes it an extremely sensitive area.  And, just as the PC muscles contract rhythmically during orgasm, so do the anal muscles.  With the right kind of anal stimulation, women can experience unparalleled pleasure, too.

Anal play can offer a new and different pleasure sensation; “naughty” excitement due to its “taboo” reputation; trust-building and communication between partners; and, of course, triple pleasure when combined with clitoral and vaginal stimulation.

The “How”

Follow these tips to get started:

  1. Freshen Up – Be clean and confident by taking a hot bottle bath infused with RomantaTherapy Refreshing Bath & Shower Creme in your favorite fragrance.
  2. Start Aroused – Stimulate your favorite hot spots, such as the clitoris and G-spot, before you even start with anal play.  Pure Satisfaction, G-Spot Creme, and We-Vibe III can help.
  3. Experiment Solo – Before choosing to introduce anal play to your partner, try a few sessions alone.  Use a beginner-friendly stimulator with a graduated tip like Jet Black, so you can work your way into it.  After a few sessions, it’ll be easier to open up (both mentally and physically) to the stimulation of a partner.
  4. Relax – When exposed to any kind of anal penetration, the body’s natural reaction is to tense up, immediately prompting the sphincter muscles around the anus to close.  Begin your anal exploration in a zen state of mind.  Remain relaxed during the activity by focusing on your breath and visualizing pleasurable sensations.
  5. Lube Up – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating or elastic, and its opening is much smaller.  You’ll need a considerable amount of lubricant in and around the anus, and on the item to be inserted.  Use a thick water-based lubricant, such as Ultra Glide Gel; or the long-lasting, silicone-based Slip ‘N Slide.  Reapply as needed (if you’re using water-based lube, plan on needing a lot!)
  6. Ease Into It – Start by massaging the opening of the anus in circular motions.  Once relaxed and slightly stimulated, gently press the anal ring so that it opens naturally.  As you work your way inside, mind the curved angle.  Readjust as needed.
  7. Be Smart – Only insert items that are 100% clean; and specifically designed for anal penetration.  There are many options to choose from, including the simple Playful Plug, the curved Onyx Adventure, and the multi-stimulating OMG.  (Toys should never be shared, and once anything goes anal, it should never go vaginal.)  Clean your toys directly after use with Clean & Simple Adult Toy Cleanser.

 

For many couples, anal play is a spicy addition to their sexual repertoire; however, it’s not for everyone.  Only YOU can decide if it’s an adventure you’d like to take.  Check out Dr. Sadie Allison’s book Tickle My Tush for even more tips and tricks on your anal adventures!

 

 

 

©2011 Passion Parties, Inc. Reproduction and distribution by Passion Consultants™ is permissible for informational purposes only.

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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