Film Review: “A Guide to Your Orgasm”

Masturbation as a way to demonstrate responsibility for ones own happiness…what a concept!  That concept is the core basis for A Guide to Your Orgasm the latest film release from The Welcomed Consensus, creators of the Deliberate Orgasm, or DOing. 

Rebecca, the woman in the video, shares very intimate details about herself with us, the viewers.  While positioning herself in a place of extreme vulnerability, she is simultaneously thoroughly empowered, granting us permission to share in her experience.  Though she exposes to us more than many people expose to their lovers or even themselves, she is in complete control of the situation and has delivered that exposure intentionally.  We may be aware of her vulnerability, but we are also awed by and grateful for it.  The video not only gives viewers a glimpse of what it is like to experience a female orgasm, from one woman’s perspective, but also provides commentary about both the physical sensations and the non-physical motivations behind the act of masturbation.

Keenly aware of her own body, Rebecca demonstrates an appreciation of herself that really should be more ingrained into our culture.  Societally, we tend to bash our bodies and look at ourselves with critical eyes.  Rebecca transcends that tendency, viewing her body as a beautiful and erotic work of art, taking in all of the minute changes that happen throughout the course of her arousal and sensual adventure.

Surrounding herself with tactile variance by way of different fabrics on the bed, throw pillows, and drapes, reminds the viewers that the sensation of touch goes beyond direct contact with ourselves or another person, and reaches into the entire surrounding area.  Our largest organ is our skin, which is covered in ever-changing erogenous zones.  Ensuring that our sensual environments provide a positive environment for touch helps to amplify the pleasurable sensations during any sensual encounter, whether masturbatory or engaged with a partner.

Building upon itself and changing for heightening or diminishing, Rebecca takes us on her journey to immense pleasure through the peaks and valleys of her sensation, both clitorally and throughout her entire body.  By experimenting with variance of pressure, stroke, and touching other parts of her body, she is able to explore what feels most pleasurable in that moment.  Masturbation allows us to discover intimate details about our bodies that we wouldn’t otherwise know, and gives us the opportunity to learn what we can share with a partner to enhance our sensual and sexual relationships, communication, and intimate connections.

Rather than strictly an erotic display of female masturbation that is often portrayed in pornographic media, strictly for the viewer’s enjoyment, A Guide to Your Orgasm gives the viewer both the erotic and the educational.  We relish in the ability to share in Rebecca’s experience, while simultaneously understanding her experience and broadening our horizons to the capabilities of the female body.  Every woman’s body is different, and Rebecca demonstrates that even one woman’s body can experience different sensations as pleasurable at different times.  This allows us to glimpse the truths of sensuality.  Though we may all be human, and though both biological sex and gender have commonalities, the human sexual experience is broad and variant.  We are sensual beings and to deny the depths of that nature is to deny a part of what it means to be human; however, exploration and discovery allows us a greater understanding of who we are, which then gives us the capabilities to share that with others and intensify the relationships we hold most closely.

Whether or not you have any interest in partaking in one of the many courses or retreats offered by The Welcomed Consensus, I highly recommend checking out A Guide to Your Orgasm.  The film offers great insight into Rebecca’s experience, which clears the way for unapologetic self-exploration.  Masturbation may very well become your next step toward taking responsibility for your own happiness.


About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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