From Orgasm to Ourgasm

How to Encourage Simultaneous Climax

A lack of simultaneous orgasms in one’s sexual repertoire does not indicate that anything is wrong with the relationship or sex life.  In fact, most couples do not climax at the same time and still continue to have a happy and satisfying romantic relationship.

However, for those couples who enjoy sexual exploration and finding new ways to enhance their relationships, experiencing a simultaneous orgasm, or ourgasm, is a fantasy they long to make a reality.  While the occurrence may not be common, it surely is not impossible.  Here are some tips to help you and your partner achieve an ourgasmic moment.

  1. First, talk to your partner about your desire to climax at the same time.  But don’t do it in the heat of the moment.  Choose a non-sexual, yet casual time, when you can talk about your fantasy and have your lover’s undivided attention.  Communicate your needs intimately and maybe even be a little graphic.  Doing so will not only make your significant other feel closer to you, but more than likely your partner will get turned on listening to your fantasy.
  2. Don’t place any pressure on yourself or your partner.  Controlling one’s orgasms is an art and a science, normally only conquered by skillful pornographic actors, or those with a lot of training.  You and your mate don’t need to achieve that level of skill, but rather, enjoy each other and the moment.
  3. Practice.  Really, the only way you and your lover will ever experience an ourgasm is through a lot of practice.  A lot.
  4. Pay attention.  What moves, emotions, facial expressions, sounds and positions cause you to climax?  What causes your mate to climax?  Take note of each other’s muscle contractions by pausing thrusting motions and learn each other’s bodies.  When you figure out what works for you and what works for your partner, you two will be better able to gauge when and how to simultaneously orgasm.
  5. Play with toys.  There are special intimacy enhancers designed to encourage the ourgasm.  From toys that you wear, to toys that he wears, to toys that can be used on you and your lover at the same time, there are a plethora of couples’ enhancers that when used with proper lubrication can help you to achieve the ultimate ourgasm

Couples’ Toy Box Recommendations

We-Vibe III – Worn internally, the We-Vibe III features two motors that vibrate during lovemaking, with both partners feeling the sensation at the same time.  The remote control adds an extra level of excitement.

Progressor – Featuring a cock ring that slips over an erection or a dildo, Progressor also offers clitoral stimulation via an internal vibrating bullet.  Tickling the clitoris during sex may increase your chances of ourgasm.

Delightful Duo – Flexible, yet firm, the dual head dildo allows for two lovers to double their pleasure and double their fun at the same time.  Use Progressor in the center for added vibration, and to ensure that one end doesn’t slip too far inside one partner, while the other end slips out of the other partner.




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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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