Too Busy for Getting Busy?

Passion Tips for Busy Couples

It’s ironic that the phrase “getting busy” means “to have sex,” because the reality is that when we’re truly busy, we often are not having any sex at all.

Life can be hectic.  You work or run your own business.  You raise a family.  You take care of your elderly parents and volunteer at your childrens’ school.  And your significant other is doing the same.  It’s no wonder that today’s modern couples are too busy to tend to their romance.  Sadly, though, not doing so can lead to an unfulfilled relationship.

Just as your home, family and career need to be tended to, so does your sexual relationship with your partner.  After all, isn’t your relationship with your lover the heart of the life you have created together?  Nurture it.  No matter how busy you are, there is always time for love and passion.  Here are some great tips:

  1. Plan it.  Okay, sure, spontaneous sex has a certain romance to it.  But it’s better to have planned sex than no sex at all.  Everything else in your life is scheduled, so why shouldn’t your sex life be?  Sex begets more sex.  So if you want more of it, then you need to plan to have it.  Hire a babysitter; take a staycation; use your lunchtime for a midday sex romp instead of hitting the fast food restaurant with your coworkers.  Pull out the calendar and start scheduling sex now.
  2. Now that you are agreeable to planning sex, aim for three encounters with your partner per week.  With this kind of commitment, couples not only find themselves making love even more than before, the sex actually gets better.
  3. Quickies are okay.  Not every lovemaking session has to be a marathon.  If you are resorting to lunchtime meet-ups, you may have only 15 minutes.  So get to it, but no pressure.  A lot can happen in 15 minutes.  Make it worthwhile.
  4. Sex is more than penetration.  Thank goodness for technology!  During the day, while you and your lover are separated by jobs and other obligations, send your partner a sexy text or email message, or better yet, a sexy photo or video of yourself.  Do practice caution.  You don’t want to send something private to your playmate’s work email or phone, but if both of you have access to private digital conversations, take full advantage of it.
  5. Simplify your life.  Did you ever think that maybe you’re too busy?  Could you use some help?  Your live should be lived in balance – this is important for your health, as well as your relationship.  Evaluate your lifestyle and see what you can change to free up some time.  Consider carpools for the kids, leaving work thirty minutes early now and then, or waking up earlier than usual to make love to your partner.  There are definitely areas in your life that you can alter.  Start making those changes today.

 

 

 

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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