Say Hello to My Little Friend!

How to introduce your partner to Passion Toys.

While you may have been using vibrators, dildos and other sex toys to pamper and pleasure yourself for years, it’s quite possible that your current lover has never been exposed to such devices.  Everyone’s level of exploration is different.  So, before you try to incorporate the We-Vibe III or the Lelo Tor 2 (or any other toy, for that matter) into your lovemaking, don’t assume anything.  If you and your partner have never used a toy while having sex, talk about it first, rather than just surprising your playmate during an intimate moment.  Here are some tips:

1. Begin the conversation by showing your partner a Passion Parties catalog or browsing my website.  Seeing photos of sensual toys and products in the comfort of your own home may be less intimidating than seeing them in person at a public sex toy shop.

2.  Reassure your lover that a toy is merely an enhancement to your lovemaking experience and that your partner is completely irreplaceable.  The use of a toy would never take the place of your special playmate.  You know that, but make sure your lover realizes it, too.

3.  Using a sex toy requires that both partners trust one another.  Therefore, incorporating a c-ring or vibrator into your lovemaking repertoire takes your intimacy to a whole new level.  So besides increasing your sexual pleasure by using a Passion Toy while making love, you’ll also be deepening your romantic feelings for one another.

4.  Start out small and slow.  Now is not the time to whip out OMG.  Instead, begin with something smaller with fewer bells and whistles and demonstrate to your lover how, where and why to use it.

5.  Be flexible.  Now, we’re not talking about sexual positions here.  We mean, be open-minded.  What you think is the perfect toy to play with may not be something that turns on your partner.  And that’s okay.  Talk to one another openly, honestly and without judgment.  Through dialogue, you two will find a toy (or two…or several!) that meets both your needs.

6.  There is no deadline.  Don’t think that just because you have opened the door to communicating about sex toys (and congratulations to you for doing so!) that you must begin your exploration that night or the next day.  Your lover may need time to allow the introduction to percolate.  Give your partner all the time necessary.  Passion Parties and our sensual products are not going anywhere!

 

 

 

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About kelijackson

We’ve been taught for so long that our bodies are sinful. “Down there” is dirty. Sexual conversation is whispered, if discussed at all. Questions go unanswered. Negative perceptions remain uncorrected. Misconceptions run wild in the minds of women, men couples in our culture. That’s where we come in! We’re here to help shed the lies you’ve heard and grown to believe about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality, and intimacy within two of your most precious relationships: that with your partner, and perhaps more importantly, that with yourself. “We?” That’s right! I lead an international team of Passion Consultants called The Orgasm Factory. We are a movement of women, joining forces to help enhance the intimacy in those precious relationships all across the US and Canada. Do yourself a favor and ask yourself these questions: What would you do with an extra $1,000 a month? What if you could earn that extra $1,000 each month working an average of just one evening each week? What if that work consisted of having a blast, partying with other women, and helping to enhance their intimacy? What if, within your network of co-workers, you felt supported, encouraged, and were recognized for your accomplishments? What if you partnered with a company that rewarded you with BONUS CASH, luxury vacations, a company-paid car, and a ton of other prizes? What if your part-time job (or new career) consisted of making new friends and helping them to reach their goals and make their dreams come true? That’s what I do! That’s what I help my team to do! And you can join our team! I’ll personally train you, you’ll get training and support from our team, and you’ll have access to the incredible training opportunities Passion Parties Corporate provides for us! (I’ve had two training sessions with Dr. Drew! Corporate offers us the absolute BEST training imaginable!) So, CALL ME! (No. Seriously. Call me. You DEFINITELY want in on this.) I’ll help you get started, and I’ll be there for you every step of the way. I’ll have faith in you until you have faith in yourself. If you’re not sure, that’s ok. We can talk about it. I’ll answer all of your questions and give you all the information you want. If, after that, you’re still not sure, book a party and get all of the fabulous Hostess Rewards we offer, just for getting a few friends together and letting me or one of my team members show you what we’re all about! You’ll not only receive the benefits of being one of our hostesses, you’ll also have the opportunity to look at the business from inside the party. Then, we’ll talk again and see if it’s a good fit! Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t necessarily teach us everything we need to know about sex, and we certainly didn’t learn enough in school. When you host your own Passion Party, one of my team members or I will teach you and your friends how to discover the joy of enhancing the intimacy in those precious relationships! We’ll show you some of our absolute best products, from the mild to the wild, and help you find exactly what you need the most. All consultations are confidential, to ensure that everyone is comfortable. Your secrets will remain your secrets. You’ll laugh! You’ll learn! You’ll have a one-of-a-kind shopportunity to bring Passion to life! View all posts by kelijackson

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