Monthly Archives: January 2014

Finding Your Big O

 

 

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Ahhh… The orgasm!

Who doesn’t love the toe curling, body convulsing, extreme ecstasy of an intense climax?

Unfortunately, female orgasms can be hard to come by.  But ladies, don’t despair.  First of all, if you do have a hard time climaxing, know that you are not alone.  According to Planned Parenthood, one in three women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex, and as many as 80% of women have difficulty climaxing from vaginal intercourse alone.  Those are staggering statistics.  Especially considering that 90% of men orgasm every time they have intercourse.

Second of all, just because you may have a hard time reaching orgasm while making love doesn’t mean you’ll have a hard time reaching orgasm n all situations.

Just like women come in all different shapes, sizes and colors, so too, do their sexual desires, turn-ons and hot spots.  While some women are able to orgasm solely from intercourse, many others need clitoral stimulation to reach the “Big O.”  Some women need other stimulants, like touching and kissing.  Others are able to climax when vibrators are introduced and used during lovemaking.  It’s impossible to list all the different scenarios for women to reach orgasm, but here are three ideas our Passion Parties experts recommend:

  • Relax.  For many women, orgasms are hard to reach because they cannot let go.  It’s not a secret that women are often stereotyped as over-analyzers, and if you’ve ever been accused of this, take note: Over-analyzing can inhibit your ability to climax.  If you are too busy thinking about what you look like or how long it’s taking, you are creating a mental roadblock on your journey to the Big O.

Start the night with a glass of wine, chamomile tea or whatever yummy beverage helps you to relax.  Once you and your mate are playing, if a negative or worrisome thought creeps into your mind, shake it off and focus on something you really like in the moment.  Maybe you like the way your partner’s tongue feels against your smooth skin, maybe you like your lover’s hot breath on your inner thigh, or maybe you’re enjoying the feeling of fullness as you’re penetrated.  Focus your thoughts and energy on that, and get lost in it.

  • Get on top.  There are certain sexual positions that give more control to your partner (think missionary and doggie-style), and there are certain positions that give more control to you, such as being on top.  When you’re on top, you’ll be able to control the angle, depth, speed and thrust intensity.  Additional bonus: If you want clitoral stimulation, you’re in the perfect position.
  • Teach by example.  Your orgasm might simply be thwarted due to your partner not knowing what you want or like.  If this is the case, there is an easy and sexy solution: Show your mate what you like.  Using your fingers or a toy, show your lover exactly how you like it – how fast, how deep, how intense.  After you’ve shown by example, ask your partner to put his or her fingers on top of yours or around yours (if using a toy) so your playmate can not only see how you like it, but s/he can also feel and eventually master what you like.

Finding your orgasm might take time and patience, and while that can be frustrating, try to remember that you’re not alone…and only practice makes perfect.

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Sensual Zodiac: Aquarius

You were born on the most important day of the year!  Your Sensual Zodiac reveals hidden influences about your arousal, your sexuality, and your foreplay preferences.  These astrological insights give you a richer, deeper understanding of your sensual nature.  Discover new intimate secrets about yourself and find the keys to your sexual happiness.

 

Zodiac Secrets of the Sensual Aquarius Woman

 

 

 

Aquarius

 

 

You are among the people most likely to be seen on a nude beach.

Sensual Aquarians like to be au natural.

 

What makes you such a sensational treat?

It is because your feelings run so deep.  The truth is, we know by now, to expect anything from you.  Yet you continue to surprise and fascinate us.  You are a living example of female power, laced with undeniable grace.  You glide through life as if you are floating on a cloud of cotton candy.  Like a sunflower, your smile lights up the natural beauty of your face.  You were born to give love, which means you will always be loved.

 

Kind, Intuitive, and a Free Spirit

Quietly, you rebel against mediocrity.  You have a knack for seeing things as they really are.  Opposing forces have no power over you.  You have the true riches of life.  You understand the importance of taking time to explore and stay connected with your loved ones.

 

Here’s another little secret about you:

You have had many high moments of spontaneous joy and wonder.  In fact, your open nature gives you the ability to laugh during orgasm or cry during a sunset.

 

The biggest secret of your sex appeal?

Pure sensual energy shimmers around you like fairy dust.  If they named a perfume after you, they could call it Innocence.  Why?  Because you exude the purest essence of compelling innocence and sensuality of all the Sensual Zodiac.  Subtle, yet powerful, you do not have to act out in order to stand out.

 

How to seduce you?

Patience is the password.  Genuine friendship is the key that unlocks your door.  With you, true love is when two friends fall in love.  You like the idea of interest before intimacy.  For you, sex is a very private matter and friendship is similar to foreplay.  Love making is a union of body, thoughts, and feelings.  You need the space to create, the freedom to feel, and the permission to let your feelings flow like liquid.

 

What else has the power to enchant you?

You enjoy romantic rituals that are based on mutual interest — things like cooking a gourmet meal, spending time in the Rockies, flying kites in Central Park, or swimming with the dolphins.  Whatever you do, you prefer to enjoy the feeling of connection before feeling comfortable enough to totally open up.

 

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Excerpted and amended from Your Sensual Zodiac by Suzie Johnson.


10 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Make Cool Again

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1. Coming to the door to pick someone up.

I think we’ve all had it with the incredibly unromantic “here” text, and meeting up always seems to be more casual and platonic than the alternative. Of course, meeting someone from online or any circumstance like that would probably be the exception to this rule, but generally: the 30 seconds it takes to get out of a car or cab and knock on the door makes a huge difference.

2. Trying to dress really nicely for a date.

“Nicely” means different things for different people, so I think it’s just a matter of putting effort into how you put yourself together to go out with someone. It’s not about wearing suits and petticoats again, but just realizing that, whether or not we like to accept it, appearance does count for something, and we should do our best to make sure that…

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Sensual Zodiac: Capricorn

You were born on the most important day of the year!  Your Sensual Zodiac reveals hidden influences about your arousal, your sexuality, and your foreplay preferences.  These astrological insights give you a richer, deeper understanding of your sensual nature.  Discover new intimate secrets about yourself and find the keys to your sexual happiness.

 

Secrets of the Sensual Capricorn Woman

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You are among the people most likely to own an adult toy.

Sensual Capricorn women don’t mind doing things for themselves.

Meeting you for the first time is a fascinating experience.

You have a very powerful presence.  It cannot be missed.  The way you move, your walk, and even your smile suggest a woman who is full of mystery, adventure, and intoxicating chemistry. you are an interesting example of what happens when you take serious and spontaneous, tough and tender, sweet and sexy, and mix them all together.

Tenacious, Resolved and Sexually in Control

No single word really comes close to capturing your sensual essence.  You are among the rarest of all beings.  Unlike most people, you don’t have to look before you leap.  Your heart is true and reassures you that your journey is certain.  Your adaptability keeps you open to recognizing all available windows of opportunity.  And your inner confidence adds an invisible blanket of warmth and rich appeal.

What is it like on your side of the fence?

It’s like you have built your life on this rock solid foundation of positive expectations.  While others may panic, feel frantic, or start to worry…you know there is a tremendous amount of good fortune coming your way. You remain calm and patient knowing the answers and solutions will eventually find you.

Certain, Confident and Secure

You make practical feel like a deliciously sexy word.  If your brand of sex appeal was a perfume, it might be called Au Natural.  Why? Because you are a down-to-earth goddess, with absolutely no pretentiousness.  You know how to go after and get exactly what you want in (and out of) the bedroom.

(Secretly) Many people fantasize about you.

You have an indefinable quality that makes people wonder what it would be like to be with you. Friends do it.  Strangers do it.  Mot of the time, you don’t even know they are having these thoughts about you.  Yet, it is true.  Deep down, many people are intrigued by (and sexually attracted to) you.

How to seduce you?

Surprise is your mental aphrodisiac.  Romance is best for you when you least expect it.  Seduction means romantic, real-moment experiences.  Not planned.  Not forced.  You want it without limits or parameters.  No boundaries, no walls, no fear, no hidden agendas, and NO schedule.  You ardently desire those special times when the moment grabs you and sweeps you right off your feet, landing you in a place where there’s nothing hidden.

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Excerpted and amended from Your Sensual Zodiac by Suzie Johnson.


Reflecting on a Leadership Retreat

Just another day at the office.  ;-)

Just another day at the office. 😉

I fully realize that in nearly all of my social media posts regarding my business, I’m gushing over how much I love it, how amazing it is, and how much it has changed my life.  So, why stop a good trend?  😉

I’ve spent this week at an Executive Director Retreat with five other top leaders in Passion Parties learning, planning, exploring, and growing.  We do this at the beginning of every year, and each time, I come away from it feeling as though – together – we can take over the world.  There’s a lot of personal growth that happens in this business, which is one of the most rewarding and most unexpected aspects, and I am so grateful that my personal growth within my Passion Journey includes these women.  All of us fall under the leadership of the same Million Dollar Club member, so while we lead our individual teams separately, we collaborate in leadership.  The support we receive from one another is so immense that I truly cannot put it into words.  We are more than mere colleagues.  We are friends.

It’s amazing to me, the extent to which my life has changed in the last four years, and the person I’ve become because of my business.  There are so many personal, psychological, and emotional connections between life, self-worth, self-esteem, and business that I absolutely believe joining Passion Parties and surrounding myself with positive, successful influences has done more good for my personal wellbeing than any amount of therapy could.  (Yes, I have seen therapists at various points in my life.  I firmly believe EVERYONE needs a therapist!  Life can be hard!  You can’t get through it alone!  And sometimes the world looks entirely different from actual reality when you’re seeing it from inside your own head.)  We all have personal shit that we have to overcome, and getting past that big, stinking pile of poo is crucial to sustainable success in this business.  After all, you ARE your business, and if you don’t have faith in yourself, that means you don’t have faith in your business, so it won’t be successful.  But, when you can dig deep within yourself, face your demons and tell them to fuck off, you can kick some serious ass in this business and help a ton of other people do the same!

I’m extremely grateful to have experienced such success in my business in just four short years, and bursting with excited curiosity to see how far it grows in 2014, and I absolutely could not have done it without the love, support, brilliance, and generosity of the five women I have grown with this week.  Together, we are stronger than the six of us could be without such collaboration, and we’re leading others into the same strength.  That’s why I stay with this business.  I started for some extra money (and, let me tell you, the money is WAY better than I thought possible four years ago!), and yes, this is my real job, so the incredible income is a big part of why I’m here, but even without that, I could never leave this business because of the positive, life-changing connections we have with our colleagues.  In this industry, when you stop growing, your business stops growing.  With each new success, you become a better Passion Consultant, a better leader, and a better person.  Our team is growing, which means we are growing.  We see to it that our growth never stops, which is a REALLY good sign for our businesses!

Upon reflection of this week, I’m pretty sure we’re taking over the world.  😉

 

Heart Passion Sisters

 


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