Monthly Archives: January 2014

Finding Your Big O





Ahhh… The orgasm!

Who doesn’t love the toe curling, body convulsing, extreme ecstasy of an intense climax?

Unfortunately, female orgasms can be hard to come by.  But ladies, don’t despair.  First of all, if you do have a hard time climaxing, know that you are not alone.  According to Planned Parenthood, one in three women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex, and as many as 80% of women have difficulty climaxing from vaginal intercourse alone.  Those are staggering statistics.  Especially considering that 90% of men orgasm every time they have intercourse.

Second of all, just because you may have a hard time reaching orgasm while making love doesn’t mean you’ll have a hard time reaching orgasm n all situations.

Just like women come in all different shapes, sizes and colors, so too, do their sexual desires, turn-ons and hot spots.  While some women are able to orgasm solely from intercourse, many others need clitoral stimulation to reach the “Big O.”  Some women need other stimulants, like touching and kissing.  Others are able to climax when vibrators are introduced and used during lovemaking.  It’s impossible to list all the different scenarios for women to reach orgasm, but here are three ideas our Passion Parties experts recommend:

  • Relax.  For many women, orgasms are hard to reach because they cannot let go.  It’s not a secret that women are often stereotyped as over-analyzers, and if you’ve ever been accused of this, take note: Over-analyzing can inhibit your ability to climax.  If you are too busy thinking about what you look like or how long it’s taking, you are creating a mental roadblock on your journey to the Big O.

Start the night with a glass of wine, chamomile tea or whatever yummy beverage helps you to relax.  Once you and your mate are playing, if a negative or worrisome thought creeps into your mind, shake it off and focus on something you really like in the moment.  Maybe you like the way your partner’s tongue feels against your smooth skin, maybe you like your lover’s hot breath on your inner thigh, or maybe you’re enjoying the feeling of fullness as you’re penetrated.  Focus your thoughts and energy on that, and get lost in it.

  • Get on top.  There are certain sexual positions that give more control to your partner (think missionary and doggie-style), and there are certain positions that give more control to you, such as being on top.  When you’re on top, you’ll be able to control the angle, depth, speed and thrust intensity.  Additional bonus: If you want clitoral stimulation, you’re in the perfect position.
  • Teach by example.  Your orgasm might simply be thwarted due to your partner not knowing what you want or like.  If this is the case, there is an easy and sexy solution: Show your mate what you like.  Using your fingers or a toy, show your lover exactly how you like it – how fast, how deep, how intense.  After you’ve shown by example, ask your partner to put his or her fingers on top of yours or around yours (if using a toy) so your playmate can not only see how you like it, but s/he can also feel and eventually master what you like.

Finding your orgasm might take time and patience, and while that can be frustrating, try to remember that you’re not alone…and only practice makes perfect.

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Sensual Zodiac: Aquarius

You were born on the most important day of the year!  Your Sensual Zodiac reveals hidden influences about your arousal, your sexuality, and your foreplay preferences.  These astrological insights give you a richer, deeper understanding of your sensual nature.  Discover new intimate secrets about yourself and find the keys to your sexual happiness.


Zodiac Secrets of the Sensual Aquarius Woman







You are among the people most likely to be seen on a nude beach.

Sensual Aquarians like to be au natural.


What makes you such a sensational treat?

It is because your feelings run so deep.  The truth is, we know by now, to expect anything from you.  Yet you continue to surprise and fascinate us.  You are a living example of female power, laced with undeniable grace.  You glide through life as if you are floating on a cloud of cotton candy.  Like a sunflower, your smile lights up the natural beauty of your face.  You were born to give love, which means you will always be loved.


Kind, Intuitive, and a Free Spirit

Quietly, you rebel against mediocrity.  You have a knack for seeing things as they really are.  Opposing forces have no power over you.  You have the true riches of life.  You understand the importance of taking time to explore and stay connected with your loved ones.


Here’s another little secret about you:

You have had many high moments of spontaneous joy and wonder.  In fact, your open nature gives you the ability to laugh during orgasm or cry during a sunset.


The biggest secret of your sex appeal?

Pure sensual energy shimmers around you like fairy dust.  If they named a perfume after you, they could call it Innocence.  Why?  Because you exude the purest essence of compelling innocence and sensuality of all the Sensual Zodiac.  Subtle, yet powerful, you do not have to act out in order to stand out.


How to seduce you?

Patience is the password.  Genuine friendship is the key that unlocks your door.  With you, true love is when two friends fall in love.  You like the idea of interest before intimacy.  For you, sex is a very private matter and friendship is similar to foreplay.  Love making is a union of body, thoughts, and feelings.  You need the space to create, the freedom to feel, and the permission to let your feelings flow like liquid.


What else has the power to enchant you?

You enjoy romantic rituals that are based on mutual interest — things like cooking a gourmet meal, spending time in the Rockies, flying kites in Central Park, or swimming with the dolphins.  Whatever you do, you prefer to enjoy the feeling of connection before feeling comfortable enough to totally open up.


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Excerpted and amended from Your Sensual Zodiac by Suzie Johnson.

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