Monthly Archives: February 2014

The Fine Art of Penis Thrusting | The Passionate Wife

The Fine Art of Penis Thrusting | The Passionate Wife.

Watching Adult Movies with Your Lover

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Have you ever seen a movie or TV show where a couple is in their hotel room trying to get sleep when all of the sudden sounds of passionate lovemaking come from behind the wall? This then turns on the previously-tired couple and they say something like, “I think we can do better than that!” or “Let’s give them a run for their money” or something equally cheesy.

We’ve all seen it – and possibly experienced it – and that’s because for many people, there’s just something about hearing, fantasizing or watching strangers in the throes of passion that gets our engines revved up. And the easiest and safest way to satisfy that desire within the confines of a monogamous relationship is with adult videos.

Conventional wisdom tells us that watching this kind of material can ruin relationships, but given the right circumstances, watching adult movies with your lover can actually increase passion, arousal and improve your sex life in general.

So if you’ve ever been interested in watching erotica with your lover, here are a few tips in setting the right environment and having a positive and passionate experience:

Know the levels of erotica.  Adult content really does come in all different levels of explicitness. Some only mimic the act of lovemaking while others leave nothing to the imagination. Both can be very scintillating; it’s finding what’s right for your level of comfort and your relationship that is key.

If you’re not sure you’ll enjoy watching adult movies with your partner but you’re curious, start with something light and mainstream, like a steamy R-rated movie. Watch “9 1/2 Weeks” or “The Notebook” and take note of your libido during the sex scenes while your partner is sitting and watching next to you. Try to determine what your lover’s reaction is to those scenes. Is his/her heart beating faster, breath shorter; is your partner shuffling around or twitching a bit? If you enjoy this experience and think your lover might too, discuss taking your viewing experience to the next level, like the “after dark” type of movies shown on premium channels.

Find something you both will like. This should not be about pleasing one person above another. This should be about exciting and stimulating both of you. Both of your turn ons, turn offs, desires, views, etc. should be considered and taken into account when deciding on what to watch. People have different interests, fantasies, turn ons, and there is adult content that caters to it all. So spend a little time discussing and finding something you and your playmate would like to watch.

Learn from the experience. Watching adult movies doesn’t just have to be about enticing your sexual senses. You may find that you actually learn something from it. Indulging in erotica may expose you to turn ons and fantasies you didn’t know you and/or your lover had.

Communicate. If you are interested in watching adult content with your significant other but are also concerned about the impact it might have on your relationship, talk about it. If you think you might get jealous, tell your partner to ask for more awareness of your needs for reassurance. The best partners are the ones that aim to please, and if you are open with your lover and able to communicate what you need – both physically and emotionally – your other half is going to be able to please you a whole heck of a lot better than if you just expected it.

Adult movies are just a sensual tool. Having concern about jealousy or the impact on your relationship is perfectly normal, but remember that the goal of watching erotica is to excite you and your significant other and build intimacy. Think of adult movies like you would a sex toy. A sex toy is purely a physical tool to get you more aroused and to have better sex. Adult videos are purely a visual tool to get you more aroused and to have better sex. Just as you are not going to leave your lover for a sex toy, your lover is not going to leave you for erotica. And just as you don’t expect your partner’s genitals to vibrate, your partner does not expect you to be able to get in the pretzel and have sex.

Bottom line: Have fun! I cannot stress enough that sex should be fun. If it’s not, stop doing what you’re doing and try something else. Watching adult movies with your lover can be a lot of fun. It doesn’t have to be a regular thing – just something to keep in your bag of tricks and spice things up at the right time.




© 2014 Passion Parties, Inc.  Reproduction and distribution by Passion Consultants™ is permissible for informational purposes only.



Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine's Day

From the Passion you share to the love you bear… or dare to bare… You are the heart of my business.
Wishing you and everyone you love a heartfelt Valentine’s Day.
❤ ~Keli

Lubricant Comparison Chart

Lubricant Comparison Chart

Not listed here is our new LUX Cream Lubricant. Lux behaves like a silicone in that it’s super silky and long lasting, but it’s water-based, so it’s safe for all toys. It’s been my top selling lube since it came out September 1st of last year, and has gotten rave reviews from my clients and hostesses.

5 Steps to a Passionate Night

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Any relationship expert will tell you that it’s important to keep the fire burning in your relationship.  Variety, new experiences and attention can strengthen the bond between lovers.  Direct from Passion Parties experts, here are 5 Steps to a Passionate Night.


  • Build anticipation.  A little teasing can get the day started just right…  Wake your partner with sweet, gentle kisses and a little touch, but don’t get carried away.  (Reserve your ecstasy engines for the evening’s events.)  Just provide a little preview of things to come.  Later in the day, send your lover a steamy sext message or email – making sure the message is sent to a secure and private channel, not anywhere that a coworker or boss could see it.


  • Get in the mood.  After a long, stressful day, the last thing most of us feel like doing is ripping off our clothes and getting physical.  But after a relaxing shower with creamy, fragrant body cleanser, your confidence will soar and your mood will soften.  My top recommendation: Refreshing Bath & Shower Creme in Coconut Lemongrass.  (It smells like vacation!  Who doesn’t love vacation?!)


  • Pamper each other.  What better way to end the day and begin a night of passion than with a simple, but loving, massage?  For warmth and flavor combined, try a natural, soy-based candle infused with flavor.  The Tasty Temptation Massage Candle is amazing, and a little goes a long way!  It’s available in three flavors, but vanilla is the most popular.  (It kinda tastes like frosting!)


  • Now, get creative.  Blindfold each other.  Bind each other.  Tickle, or even paddle.  Try something new and get playful.  If you haven’t added some of our Fun & Fantasy items to your collection yet, now is the time to do so!


  • Be passionate.  After you’ve pampered and played, embrace the warmth, intimacy and tenderness of each other’s love.




© 2014 Passion Parties, Inc.  Reproduction and distribution by Passion Consultants™ is permissible for informational purposes only.

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