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Passion Favorites – Summer Ultra Sets

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Glow with pleasure this summer with one of Passion Parties’ Summer Ultra Sets.


Vibe Ultra Collection

The Vibe Ultra Collection features Vibe Ultra, Tickling Trio (which can be slipped onto Vibe Ultra for extra texture and sensations) and LUX creamy lubricant, which is a velvety water-based lubricant completely safe to use with the silicone Vibe Ultra.

Vibe Ultra is a large, bullet style vibrator that offers three speeds of sensation at the push of a single button. It’s easy, effective, and allows you to pinpoint your exact pleasure points. You can’t get any better than that.


Bunny Ultra Collection

The Bunny Ultra Collection features the Bunny Ultra, Pure Satisfaction Unisex Sexual Enhancement Gel, and Clean & Simple Adult Toy Cleanser. Nothing quite beats the feeling of a dual-action vibrator. Providing both intense clitoral and vaginal stimulation, Bunny Ultra is sensually hypnotic, especially when used with Pure Satisfaction! The velvet touch finish feels great against the body, and the ultra-femme design is unintimidating. Bunny Ultra features three shaft speeds and seven rabbit functions, so you’ll never be bored.





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FREE SHIPPING April 16 & 17 at www.GrownUpSexEd.com – YouTube

FREE SHIPPING April 16 & 17 at www.GrownUpSexEd.com – YouTube.

Lubricant Comparison Chart

Lubricant Comparison Chart

Not listed here is our new LUX Cream Lubricant. Lux behaves like a silicone in that it’s super silky and long lasting, but it’s water-based, so it’s safe for all toys. It’s been my top selling lube since it came out September 1st of last year, and has gotten rave reviews from my clients and hostesses.

▶ LUX Cream Lubricant – www.GrownUpSexEd.com – YouTube

▶ LUX Cream Lubricant – www.GrownUpSexEd.com – YouTube.

What to Do When His Penis Is Too Big for You



So often we hear “bigger is better,” but what happens when bigger is too big?  Don’t laugh.  This is a serious problem.  Although you may not be coming in contact with overzealous penises often, the truth of the matter is, they are out there, and many women and men struggle with how to handle them.

It can be a really sensitive subject for both parties, but not taking certain precautions can result in pain, self-consciousness and even injury.  That’s right, injury.  If you and your partner are not careful and he penetrates you too deeply, injury can occur to the cervix at the end of the vaginal canal.  So what should you do if his penis is too big for you?  Read on for some expert tips.


Arouse:  Foreplay is an absolute must when preparing to have sex with a well-endowed man.  By getting aroused, your vagina secretes its own lubrication and swells.  It’s preparing itself for intercourse.  Give yourself the time you need to become fully aroused.  You might even want to have an orgasm through foreplay before having sex.  After an orgasm, your body will be far more relaxed and will be primed for deeper penetration.


Lubricate:  Even if you spend time getting aroused and feel your natural lubrication, add more.  The wetter, the better!  Everything should feel nice and smooth as he enters you.  If you feel any kind of stickiness or rubbing, add more lube.  Try Slip N Slide silicone lubricant for a silky smooth lubrication that will not absorb or dry out, or RomantaTherapy Revelation water-based lubricant, which can be reactivated with just a few drops of water (or saliva, if you’re not near a sink).  Both are great for long-lasting lubrication and let the focus be entirely on taking him in.


Experiment:  There are tons of ways to experiment, and you and your partner can definitely have some fun trying out these techniques.  First of all, the vagina is a stretchable canal – 8 and 10 pound babies come out of there, after all.  It can expand up to four times its normal size during arousal.  (Think of a tube sock.  Not all that sexy of an image, I know, but you get the idea.)  So, if you and/or your partner are frustrated that you cant take him all in, don’t get discouraged.  If desired, most women can stretch their vaginas.  It just takes some time, practice and…stretching.

You can practice and stretch alone and/or with your partner.  If you’d like to practice with your partner, spend some time getting properly aroused and lubricated.  Then, while lying on your back, allow him to slowly enter you until it’s no longer comfortable and/or desirable.  Then have him inch in a bit more.  Pause there and shift your hips from side to side.  Do the same thing, but this time while lying on your back, lift your legs up and rest them on his chest.  You can be penetrated quite deeply in this position, so make sure your partner takes it slow and stops when you tell him to.  Once he’s inched in as far as you can handle, move your legs from side to side.  Doing this, inching in a little deeper each time, will help you stretch out your vaginal canal and prepare for regular lovemaking.

If you’d prefer to practice alone, repeat the same steps as above just use a dildo with the approximate length and girth as your partner’s penis.  Get to know your current comfort zone and then push it little by little, day by day.

You can also experiment with positions.  According to Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! by Dr. Sadie Allison, if you and/or your partner like doggie-style, “flatten your arch till your hips are tucked down under (to keep him shallower.)  Slowly adjust your arch till you find the depth that feels best, or rotate it up and down throughout your lovemaking.”  Dr. Allison also recommends the Cover Girl position – he’s on the bottom, lying flat on his back, while you’re on the top, straddling him with your chest resting against his and your legs extended out, slightly bent and tightly wrapped around both of his – which allows you to control just how deep he can get inside you.  Additionally, she recommends spooning positions.  Your tush will provide a natural buffer for you, but will still feel nice on the part of his shaft that’s not inside.

Positions to avoid are those where your lower legs and feet are up at his shoulders or your knees are in his armpits.  Also keep in mind that when you arch your back, your lower chest or spread your legs, he can push deeper into you.  So, don’t do any of that until you’ve done some stretching.

Using toys is a great option as well.  Dr. Allison recommends sliding a penis buffer to the base of the penis during lovemaking.  Though designed as a masturbation sleeve, Gigi is excellent for this, because it can be cut to fit for length, and shortened as you can accommodate more of him.  Not only will this provide more pleasure for him, as we’ll feel like he’s completely penetrating you, but it will keep him from entering you too deeply.


Communicate:  Communication is key in any relationship, but when there is an issue that impacts both partners, the most effective way to solve that issue is by talking about it with your partner.  What techniques are you interested in experimenting with?  What techniques does he want to try?

When it comes to an issue where pain and injury can result, it’s especially important to communicate while experimenting.  Talk about the pressure.  Talk about speed.  The goal is for both partners to enjoy themselves and be sexually fulfilled by one another, so being connected in both mind and body will only enhance the experience.








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Top Recommended Honeymoon Sex Toys


As we move into wedding season, we cannot forget the honeymoon!  Much like weddings, no two honeymoons are exactly alike; however, there is one consistent theme: sex…and lots of it!  All newlyweds are hoping for a sexy and titillating honeymoon with their new husband or wife.  The wedding is over.  After months of planning, confirming with vendors and making sure the details are perfect, it’s all behind you.  Now, you get to be rewarded with some time to relax, time to hang out and enjoy your new husband/wife, and time to have incredible lovemaking with the person with whom you’ve chosen to spend the rest of your life.

Many married friends and family will give you their expert advice: “Don’t go crazy trying to plan your itinerary.”  “Just relax.”  “Don’t have expectations.”  These are all sage words of wisdom, and you should certainly take all of it to heart, but our expert advice is a little different.  We say, “Pack some sex toys!”  Why?  Because your honeymoon is a time to connect – sexually and otherwise – with your new spouse.  You’re setting the tone for the rest of your marriage, and you want that tone to be intimate and romantic but fun, sexy and exciting, as well.  So make some room in your luggage, and consider our top recommended honeymoon sex toys and tips that will help ensure multiple orgasms and that the excitement of the wedding lasts through the honeymoon and well into the marriage!

  • Pack a toy for her:  You’ll definitely want to pack your favorite vibrator.  Whether it’s the Lelo Soraya, the new Sili Rabbit, or the new Bunny Hugs, pack it along!  (Expert tip: make sure you store each toy separately in one of our silky storage bags, remove all batteries and store those separately as well.  You don’t want your vibrator buzzing as it is going through security or being loaded under the plane.  If it does, officials will have to go through your baggage to find the culprit.  Avoid the unnecessary embarrassing moment, and pack your toys like a pro.)  Use your vibrator during foreplay or as a clitoral stimulator during lovemaking.  For a little more adventure, you could also put on a show for your new husband/wife.  Give your spouse a lesson on exactly what you like and how you like it.  Not only will your lifelong lover learn something, but s/he will also enjoy the view!
  • Pack a toy for him:  They say a happy wife is a happy life, but remember, a happy marriage is 50/50.  So pack a toy for him, too.  Try the Lelo Tor 2, which is by far the best couple’s ring you’ll ever experience.  Due to constricted blood flow in the penis, he’ll be able to maintain a stiff erection and delay orgasm, and you’ll both feel the benefits of the six different stimulation modes (and the multiple speeds!)  This toy is a definite win-win.  Another option is Mimi – our most popular masturbation sleeve.  This makes manual and oral stimulation much more fun for both of you!
  • Pack a toy for fun/foreplay:  Getting ready to go to happy hour or walk on the beach?  Slip Gizm-O‘s wedge-shaped bullet into your panties or slide in the We-Vibe 3 for dual action play.  Then give the wireless remote control to your spouse.  Let him/her have some fun by surprising you throughout the night with little bursts of vibration.  By the time you get back to your bed – if you actually make it there – you’ll both be ready to get it on!  This is one sure way to create some of those just for you, memorable moments.  You and your new husband/wife will be giggling, having the time of your lives, and ready for action.  Everyone around you will be wondering what you spiked your drinks with – and how to get some for themselves!
  • Pack some massage lotion:  Our lickable massage cream, Crèmesicle, works double duty as a massage lotion and flavored fun.  Pop open a bottle of wine or champagne, order some chocolate covered strawberries and take turns rubbing each other down from head to toe, paying extra close attention to all your partner’s erogenous zones.  And when you’d like a little extra something sweet, run your tongue along anywhere you’ve rubbed to give your partner a sizzling sensation and yourself a tasty treat.  (Expert tip: You’ll need to put this in checked baggage, as it comes in a 4oz bottle.)
  • Pack some lube:  Since you plan to take some toys with you and you plan to make love pretty frequently on your honeymoon, having a good lubrication with you is an absolute must!  Revelation is a great option if you’re using silicone toys.  It’s water based and non-staining.  If you feel it drying up, just add a little water and you’ll be back in business.  (Expert tip: If you’re only carrying on luggage, make sure to order a couple of the 1 oz bottles of Revelation for your trip.)  For those times when you’re not using silicone toys and you go in for some marathon lovemaking, try Slip N Slide.  A silicone-based lube, Slip N Slide will not absorb and will not dry out, so re-application is unnecessary, meaning you’ll use less and the product will last longer.  (Expert tip:  Silicone eats silicone, so never use a silicone lube with a silicone toy and never allow your toys to touch one another.)
  • Pack some Pure Satisfaction:  Another potion to add to your bag of tricks is RomantaTherapy’s Pure Satisfaction.  This enhancement gel is Passion Parties’ number 1 selling product, and for good reason: Pure Satisfaction contains the natural ingredient L-argenine, which is known to promote and enhance clitoral and/or penile sensitivity and arousal.  (Pure Satisfaction comes in a 1.7 oz bottle, so it can be carried on with no problems.)
  • Pack something sexy:  For many of us, but especially men, the visual aspect of sex is a big part of getting and staying aroused, so treat him to the sight of you in some sexy lingerie.  Our Floral Lace Bodystocking is super sexy and offers easy access with its convenience hole.  Likely, you’ve also received some teddies from friends for the honeymoon.  Although your new husband/wife will love to see you in your new negligees, it’s at least equally important – if not far more important – that you love yourself in them.  You want to showcase your body, sexuality and confidence, not hide under the covers.  Make sure you try everything on before you pack it.  Exchange or return anything that doesn’t make you feel like the beautiful D.I.V.A. you are!

Honeymoons are a magical time for newlyweds.  Have some fun, have multiple orgasms and make it a honeymoon you and your new spouse never forget!




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Get Wet!

Water resistant toys can make a splash!

Tip: A silicone lubricant like Slip ‘N Slide or Passion Parties’ exclusive RomantaTherapy Silicone Lubricant works best for sexual water play.  However, you never want to use it with a silicone toy.  If your water resistant toy of choice is made from silicone, use a water-based lubricant like Revelation instead.

Good sex can happen in the bedroom.  But normally, great sex happens everywhere else.  Whether surprising your mate in the shower or taking advantage of a night alone in the hot tub, you need toys that can satisfy in water.  That’s why Passion Parties features 40 water resistant sex toys in our regular line.  All are listed (and linked) below.  (My top recommendations are indicated.)

Blossom Bliss

*Blush G*

Bunny Bliss

*Butterfly Bliss*

Butterfly Effect


Chocolate Thriller

Cosmo Bunny

*Delightful Duo*

Deluxe Dolphin

Deluxe Pleasure Ring


*Glow Boy*

Groove Thang




*Jack Frost*   –   Check out The Chronicles of Jack Frost.

Jet Black

Joy Ride

*Kegel Pods*


*Lelo Soraya*

Lipstick Vibe

Love & Lace

Maxi Bullet

Nubby G Aqua


*Plush Bendy*

Rippling Rabbit


Tongue Tickler

Treasure Gem

Triple Tickle Dolphin

True Love

Velvet Curve

Velvet Pleasure

*We-Vibe 3*

We-Vibe II

*Wild Orchid*

New Water Resistant Toys for Summer


*Leaf Vitality*


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